11 Jul #203 – The Crimson Flags of Courting with Dr. David Puder
Immediately Matt and Scott welcome again Dr. David Puder, psychiatrist and host of the Psychiatry & Psychotherapy Podcast, to debate one among Hambrick’s guidelines — don’t date somebody you wouldn’t marry. Dr. Puder shares a few of his “crimson flags” of courting and presents some sensible ideas for evaluating potential mates for these presently navigating the courting market.
A few of Dr. Puder’s crimson flags embody:
- Once I take into consideration this particular person, do I already wish to change them?
- Would I wish to have my future youngsters with this particular person? Or, alternatively, would I would like this particular person to babysit my youngsters?
- Might I see this particular person being father or mom?
- Am I feeling a pull to rescue them ultimately?
- Am I focusing solely on the optimistic issues about them (perhaps 1 optimistic factor) and ignoring their faults?
- Does this particular person attempt to management all the pieces about them, together with me?
- Does this particular person react to obstacles with anger, rage, blame, or shaming others?
- Does this particular person blame others for his or her errors, the place they’re in life, or the issues they face?
- Does this particular person make impulsive selections with their cash or different selections?
- Does this particular person shut down, disengage, stonewall, or emotionally distance themselves throughout arguments?
- Does this particular person nonetheless have emotional vitality tied to previous relationships? Constructive or destructive lingering emotions.
Do YOU have a burning query about courting and marriage? Ship it to [email protected] and we’ll reply it on a follow-up episode with Dr. Puder.
You will discover Dr. Puder on Instagram @dr.davidpuder and you’ll hearken to his podcast Psychiatry & Psychotherapy on iTunes and all different main podcast shops.
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