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11 Jul #203 – The Crimson Flags of Courting with Dr. David Puder

Immediately Matt and Scott welcome again Dr. David Puder, psychiatrist and host of the Psychiatry & Psychotherapy Podcast, to debate one among Hambrick’s guidelines — don’t date somebody you wouldn’t marry. Dr. Puder shares a few of his “crimson flags” of courting and presents some sensible ideas for evaluating potential mates for these presently navigating the courting market.


A few of Dr. Puder’s crimson flags embody:

  1. Once I take into consideration this particular person, do I already wish to change them?
  2. Would I wish to have my future youngsters with this particular person? Or, alternatively, would I would like this particular person to babysit my youngsters?
  3. Might I see this particular person being father or mom?
  4. Am I feeling a pull to rescue them ultimately?
  5. Am I focusing solely on the optimistic issues about them (perhaps 1 optimistic factor) and ignoring their faults?
  6. Does this particular person attempt to management all the pieces about them, together with me?
  7. Does this particular person react to obstacles with anger, rage, blame, or shaming others?
  8. Does this particular person blame others for his or her errors, the place they’re in life, or the issues they face?
  9. Does this particular person make impulsive selections with their cash or different selections?
  10. Does this particular person shut down, disengage, stonewall, or emotionally distance themselves throughout arguments?
  11. Does this particular person nonetheless have emotional vitality tied to previous relationships? Constructive or destructive lingering emotions.


Do YOU have a burning query about courting and marriage? Ship it to [email protected] and we’ll reply it on a follow-up episode with Dr. Puder.


You will discover Dr. Puder on Instagram @dr.davidpuder and you’ll hearken to his podcast Psychiatry & Psychotherapy on iTunes and all different main podcast shops.



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